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May
23rd
Wed
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Not O Important

Random though it is, I’d like to extend a hearty “thank you” to whomever coined and popularized the notion of non-goal-oriented sex. Having a specific outcome in mind just seems stressful and counter-productive to simply enjoying intimacy with one’s partner.
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Everything we do affects other people.
Luke Ford
May
22nd
Tue
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Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter.
Martin Luther King, Jr.
May
21st
Mon
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May
16th
Wed
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Before I was a Mom…
I slept as late as I wanted and never worried about how late I got into bed.
I brushed my hair and my teeth everyday.

Before I was a Mom…
I cleaned my house each day.
I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby.
I didn’t worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunizations.

Before I was a Mom…
I had never been puked on.
Pooped on. Spit on. Chewed on. Peed on.
I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts.
I slept all night…

Before I was a Mom…
I never held down a screaming child so that doctors could do tests.
Or give shots.
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.

Before I was a Mom…
I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn’t want to put it down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn’t stop the hurt.
I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much.
I never knew that I could love someone so much.
I never knew I would love being a Mom.

Before I was a Mom…
I didn’t know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn’t know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn’t know that bond between a mother and her child.
I didn’t know that something so small could make me feel so important and happy.

Before I was a Mom…
I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay.
I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache, the wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom.
I didn’t know I was capable of feeling so much before I was a Mom.

-Unknown

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The ideas that have lighted my way have been kindness,
beauty and truth.
Albert Einstein
Apr
11th
Wed
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Feeling grateful or appreciative of someone or something in your life actually attracts more of the things that you appreciate and value into your life.
Christiane Northrup
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My friend Chris, and his band, tearing it down in a wonderful way.  If you’re in the SoCal area, I highly recommend enjoying them live.